Do You?

You know how when your phone rings and your heart starts to pump harder, and you wish that whatever it is, it is from 'that person'? 


     That's the beginning of every relationship.


What about when you're already in the relationship for some time? Does your heart still pump as hard whenever your phone rings? Do you still stare at your phone, hoping that it'd ring? Do you still open up your inbox and stare at it, impatiently wait for the new message to come in just so you can read it immediately? Or, do you still look at the same message again and again?


Let's not talk about the time when you're in a middle of an important discussion or an argument, let's just say, the daily chit-chats. It doesn't matter what it is, when you constantly still do all the above (previous paragraph), you know that same feeling you felt from the beginning of the relationship has never been changed.


  Normally, people don't do it anymore. They get used to each other.
     Somehow, they think that it's okay and that it'll still be okay to reply later/call back later.
          Somehow, they think the other person wouldn't mind and that, it is 'No Big Deal'.


The word, 'Busy' is often used. People assume their significant others should understand. Hence, by the end of the day, they's still be right where they are, just waiting with a big smile on their faces. Or not, they'd still forgive and let it go.


        Is that true?


Sometimes all these little facts actually show how someone in a relationship 'walk'. It shows how important you take your partner, or how less and less important the person had become to you, as you both go down the 'relationship lane'.


Proving someone's importance doesn't only involve words and visible actions. The tiniest things count, whether if it's the invisible actions through decisions, plans, behaviors, etc, or it could simply just be the time you make and give, out of your fully packed schedule. Sometimes, even sacrifices. 


Some things bring bad consequences, knowing it but you do it anyway, based on your own heart, even the worst consequences wouldn't make you feel bad at all. Instead, you feel good about yourself, because in the end, you get to walk home and fall into the arms of the person you love. The most important person in your life, is still there with you. 


    If having that person means everything in the world, then the rest are merely anything.


    Regrets, Guilts, Embarrassments...
       They're going to be like an army of ants,
           They're strong and they bite.


But look beside you, the one you're holding. The one that might be the only weapon you need, all the support that you want, all the strength that you need. 


      Together, an army of ants is merely just, an army of ants.

If someone is important to you,

take him/her seriously.

Nothing crushes more than making someone feel foolish.

Nothing brings back the faith someone once had in Love.

Nothing mends a broken heart once it is severely broken.